was a phrase I heard a lot today.
Today was a professional development day in our school district. For me, this meant meeting with the teachers at our 9th grade campus and doing some curriculum planning with them in the morning. In the afternoon, this meant meeting back on my home campus for safety and security training. It also meant seeing some colleagues that I don’t see very often.
I belong to a faculty of nearly 400 teachers and staff on a campus of nearly 1 million square feet. We don’t meet often, but when we do, it is generally for big things. Today felt like a big thing for me because as I walked into our meeting, I could feel a room full of eyes on me, and a bunch of people watching, probably thinking, “Who is that?”
This was confirmed for me by a colleague whose daughter I taught a while back. She said to me as we left our meeting, “I had to look twice, because I didn’t recognize you!” I explained that I’d had bariatric surgery over the summer, and that it’d been 7 months. She asked the requisite question (“how do you feel?”) and I gave my standard answer (“fantastic”). I took the opportunity to teach her a little bit about what I’d had done, and then we parted ways.
I’ve had more people tell me that they didn’t recognize who I was today than ever. I still have a hard time believing that I’ve changed that much, but I guess I have. I really believe that the patient is the last one to realize that they don’t look the same anymore because in their mind’s eye, they’re still the fat person they were pre-op.
That’s how I see myself, anyway. I still see the 440-pound me in the mirror, and I still move around and negotiate space like her. I still feel like her some days, especially when my back acts up or my knee stiffens.
I don’t think I can ever get rid of seeing the fatter me, because it’s an important reminder of where I came from. Most importantly, it’s a great reminder not to go back to where I started.
My eating on this day was pretty okay. I was pleasantly surprised to discover that Pei Wei has changed its menu so that now small is a size for entrees, and that you can ask for extra protein. So I did. I ate more calories than usual, but I also worked out today–did a hard 45 minute bike ride on the recumbent bike. I had 1085 calories, 99 grams protein, 67 grams carbs, and 48 grams fat.